‘I’m not a free nanny. I said no, She LOST IT’: Childfree woman refuses to babysit her sister’s 3 under-10 kids overnight before a big work presentation, is hung up on and branded selfish

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  • Entitled sister demands I babysit because “You don’t have real problems”

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  • I'm childfree, work remotely, and live alone. My sister has three kids under 10 and is
  • constantly in crisis mode. I try to help when I can, but I also have boundaries.
  • This week, she asked if I could watch the kids overnight so she and her husband could go to a
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  • (93%)
  • wedding. I said no, I had a major presentation the next day and needed sleep.
  • She LOST IT.
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  • "Must be nice not having real problems like diapers and school drop-offs. You
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  • live in la-la land. Watching them overnight one time won't kill you."
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  • She then accused me of being selfish and "not understanding what family means." I reminded
  • her I've babysat multiple times already, sometimes unpaid, and that I'm not her emergency backup
  • just because I don't have children. She hung up on me. Her husband later texted me and said, "You let her down."
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  • I didn't respond. Let them figure out childcare. I'm not a free nanny because I don't have stretch marks.
  • Nonameswhere Never babysit their kids ever again.
  • Dis_engaged23 "No" is a complete answer. If they don't accept it, that's on them.
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  • Their poor planning does not constitute an emergency for you. Never babysit again.

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